How beautiful and seemingly simple are the last words of to-day's Epistle:
'Carry one another's burdens, and so you will fulfil the Law of Christ'. But how
much they claim from us! Linking it with Christ means that we must be prepared
to carry the burden of each person, of everyone, whether it is a friend or a
foe, whether the burden seems to be great and honourable, or whether it is
humiliating to us as it is defiling to the other person.
Christ became man and took upon Himself all the weight not only of our
creaturely condition, but of the condition of the fallen world. He took upon
Himself the weight, the crushing weight of the lives of everyone who came to
Him; not only of the sick and the needy, not only of those who were clean and
persecuted, but of those who were wallowing in filth, those who were evil, as it
seemed to others, at the very core of their being. But through the darkness that
blinded people He saw the light at the core, He saw that the divine image was
imprinted at the very heart of every person, and it was to this image He
addressed Himself; it was this life eternal that was dormant in each that He
awoke through a touch, through a word, by His presence.
And so, when we hear the words of Paul that we should carry one another's
burdens, it is against this background of Christ's readiness never to reject
anyone, never to see in anyone a person for whom there was no hope left, that we
must turn to our neighbour. When the burdens we have to carry are noble and
tragic it seems to us easy to do so; it is easy to be full of compassion, of
sympathy for the persecuted, to be full of sympathy and compassion for those who
are in desperate material need, for those who are in agony of mind, who suffer
in all possible ways. It is easy to have a moment of compassion for those who
are sick in body; but how difficult it is to have a steady sense of compassion
for those who are sick for a very long time and who claim our attention week
after week, year after year, at times for decades. And even more so for people
who are mentally disturbed and who need our attention still more, who need us to
stand by them, carry them indeed on our shoulders; how many of us are capable of
this?
But there is another way in which we have to carry one another's burdens; the
examples which I gave were burdens that afflicted others and burdens we were
only to share, and to share for moments. It is only for a few hours that we
visit the sick; it is only for a short while that we carry the burdens of those
who are in agony of mind and in distress, because having been with them, stood
by them, expressed all the genuine concern which was ours, we will walk out and
put down this burden while the other will continue to carry it.
How much more difficult it is when the burden is laid upon ourselves, and this
burden is not one that ennobles us in our own eyes or in the eyes of others, but
is simply pure ugly suffering and distress: the dislike of others for us, the
hatred of others, slander and calumny, and the various many, many ways in which
our neighbour can make our lives almost unbearable. How difficult it is then to
think of them not just as the cause of all that destroys our lives, but as
people who are blind, who are unaware of what they are doing. We pray in the
litanies by saying that we ask God to be merciful to those who hate and wrong
us, who devise and do evil against us!
How often it is that people devise nothing, mean nothing, but are totally
thoughtless. At that moment how difficult it becomes to see this person as
someone whom we must take upon ourselves, with all the consequences of it and
bring this person before God; to bring before God ugliness, meanness,
thoughtlessness, unintentional cruelty - bring it before God and say: 'Forgive,
Lord! They do not know what they are doing'… These words that are so beautiful
and so inspiring. Carry one another's burdens aid so you will have fulfilled the
Law of Christ, claim from us a generosity, a steadiness and courage and a
likeness to Christ which is far beyond what we are prepared to offer most of the
time to most of the people, even to the people whom we love, whose burdens we
are prepared to carry for a moment and then leave the burden on them.
Let us reflect on every person who is of our acquaintance, beginning with the
closest ones, who have claims on us, or who burden us by their very existence,
or the way they behave. And then, let us look farther and learn to accept the
burden and carry it as Christ did - up to death upon the Cross. Amen.